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Power Shift: Changing Your Inner Stance Towards Success (Part 3)

Power Shift - Changing Your Inner Stance towards Success

This is the third part, a continuation from my previous posts, Power Shift: Changing Your Inner Stance Towards Success (Part 1) and (Part 2).

Again, read Part 1 if you haven’t, to get familiarized with the concepts of inner stances and distinctions. Today’s ‘Power Shift’ distinctions are grouped under a common theme – Taking ACTION.

Perfect Conditions vs Decisive Actions

‘Perfect Conditions’ means you’re waiting for all the right conditions to be met before starting to move towards your goal. You wait to muster more courage, hoping for your doubts and fears to somehow disappear. You wait for all the unknown variables to be solved and then you’d feel comfortable to step out into the great journey.

The Universe rewards the doer, those who take ‘Decisive Actions’. Fear or no fear, you can start by taking baby steps. You don’t have to focus on getting more courage or confidence. Courage increases as you advance forward each time.

Take intelligent risks, take bold steps, take the leap of faith. Don’t wait for all the perfect conditions to be present before you move. Sure, you will make mistakes and accidents may happen. However, the cost of inaction is often greater than the cost of mistakes and mishaps.

Give yourself the permission to not operate from the ‘Perfect Conditions’ stance, and live from the place of ‘Decisive Actions’.

[Tweet “”So many people tiptoe through life, so carefully, to arrive, at death.” ~ Tony Campolo. “]

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